Category: Family

“Global Insights – The Zen of Travel and BEING in the World” gets us there without having to travel the roads in between.

     As a writer, I’ve learned to never start a positive comment with negative words.  In Global Insights – The Zen of Travel and BEING in the World, Dr. Monteiro broke the rules of being a so-called “travel writer”, so I feel no shame (a laughable concept anyway) in putting forward my thoughts on her book.

What the book isn’t!

  • It’s not a happy-go-lucky, generic coming-of-age book written by someone with no life experience.
  • It’s not a book that highlights the highs and avoids talking about the painful, gut-wrenching, and often soul-crushing sacrifices made in order to live the dream.
  • It’s not a book to be taken lightly, or easy to put down.
  • It’s not even the “part memoir; part motivational/inspirational text; part travelogue; part collection of psychological insights into creativity, motivation, and self-actualization”, it’s billed as. Because this book is far more than the sum total of its profound, yet disparate parts.

It is, however a beautifully positioned, and well executed dive into the warm ocean of travel on a global scale.

Tanai Benard & The Fabulous Four Deep Around The World Family, The Podcast!

From to The Travel Guru to D.L. Hughley to Zane, Tanai and her family have been blazing trails all over the internet and the world!  We had a bread time talking about all of the things that went into her decision to take her children on a global adventure. We also spent time digging into the more precious, and deeper areas of the life she has now, and the life she was once resigned to.

We both hope you enjoy the ride ~>

White Enough To Feed Your Self Hatred; Black Enough Not To Piss Off Your Family!

Jessica made a profound statement!  She was talking about men, and the difficult, awkward, sometimes insulting ways they she’s been approached. When she said that after particularly insensitive comments from some men, she confronts them on their poor choice of words with ”So, I’m White enough to feed your self-hatred, but Black enough not to piss off your family?”

I was floored!  After that, I asked her to really dig in and unpack her thoughts.  This is what she came back with.


     Self-hatred comes in several forms, from subtle to overt. It can be expressed as “woe is me” self-loathing, or it can be projected on to others in order to deflect attention. For generations, it has been common for Black Americans to practice self-hatred.  It’s a common practice; a tradition rooted in slavery and passed down from parent to child.

Bear with me.

Is it Marriage or a Business Merger?

Jo Gan is a multi-lingual, fellow world adventurer that has gained a legion of followers as she writes about life in China, she took time out to share an interesting article on an aspect of Chinese life that is often misunderstood.  It’s something that she has developed a unique perspective on as she watches it play out first hand. A Wedding Picture Is So Sweet It Gave Me A Cavity! ->