When a dear friend introduced me to what Dr. Curtis Jasper was doing, I was very inspired by what I saw. However, being the curmudgeon and skeptic I am, I went deeper. I talked to friends and friends of friends about him, always starting the conversation with the same question I ask about all men on the verge of impressing me:
“Is he who he says he is?”
When I threw down the challenge and demanded that Dr. Kim sit down and make a case against my preference for Girls and not Women, she showed up ready willing and able!
Dr. Kim is her name, but her sobriquet is what rings out in the halls of academia: The Thought Reframer. We came ready for a war of words! Listen up! ->
At 40 years old I am putting forward the lessons and wisdom that have brought me success so that I don’t lose sight of them! Looking at life with 40/40 vision ->
So, You Don’t Like Black Guys?
That’s OK! Go for what you DO want!
I came back from a birthday celebration for my friend Renée, the action was awesome! I was even able to take a life lesson that a man who can’t dance gave me.
I’ve always held to the belief that comfort is the enemy of Men. If we aren’t pushing ourselves to live on the edge of life, then we aren’t learning or growing. That’s why I always jump headlong into the Discomfort Zone!