Tagged: men

🔴(LIVE) Steroids & Sexual Equity!

 A male Feminist I know just BLEW MY MIND with a comment on Steroids & Gender norms, you need to hear this because for once I agree with him! Be sure to Retweet & join in!

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🔴 (LIVE) Nicole Michelle Shows & How Femininity Played Into My Mile-High Experience!

Nicole & her “Inner Beauty Movement” give away most of the secrets Men who use Masculinity don’t want Women to know, especially about sex! Still, her teaching Women Femininity makes it OK! We unpack how happy I was to be manipulated by the same woman with different faces, over and over again!

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🔴 A Man Needs Little.

(LIVE) Minimalism & Stoicism, Our Super Powers. As Men, we sat down to talk about what we really need, and how needing anything at all affects us.  We have all read and practiced Stoicism & Minimalism to some degree & we are discussing how it factors into our Masculinity.  We are looking forward to your thoughts and questions.

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She Asked Me When I’d Settle Down.

I sat down for brunch at a beautiful seaside pasta restaurant in Brazil, with a new friend. She’s travelled the world and also been through the transformative process that everyone who has lived abroad knows. That’s why I was stunned when she asked me a question I’m no stranger to, but I have never heard from a fellow traveller. She asked when I’d “Settle Down”.
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White Enough To Feed Your Self Hatred; Black Enough Not To Piss Off Your Family!

Jessica made a profound statement!  She was talking about men, and the difficult, awkward, sometimes insulting ways they she’s been approached. When she said that after particularly insensitive comments from some men, she confronts them on their poor choice of words with ”So, I’m White enough to feed your self-hatred, but Black enough not to piss off your family?”

I was floored!  After that, I asked her to really dig in and unpack her thoughts.  This is what she came back with.


     Self-hatred comes in several forms, from subtle to overt. It can be expressed as “woe is me” self-loathing, or it can be projected on to others in order to deflect attention. For generations, it has been common for Black Americans to practice self-hatred.  It’s a common practice; a tradition rooted in slavery and passed down from parent to child.

Bear with me.

Men: Build / Create / Make Something.

For me its Blacksmithing, for you it may be painting, building car engines, carpentry, or pottery. Whatever it is, take on a task that leaves you with something you can sign your name to and be proud of. Even if it’s ugly! I’ve made a lot of ugly knives, but I treat them all with the same love and respect as I sharpen and shine them. I never sell them or make them for money. Instead, I give them to special friends who I want to have a priceless gift, or trade them to friends for other things they have made with their own hands.  Whats made is always valued more than what’s bought!